Media Diet
Monkey was recently wondering about my media diet, so I thought I'd share some recent media I've enjoyed or not enjoyed.
You Hurt My Feelings (2023), Grade D
Incredible ratings from the critics on Rotten Tomatoes, but this movie friggin' sucks. It's a unfunny dramedy about the "little lies" we tell each other. It's in the heart two sizes too small vein of Seinfeld and I have no patience for this anymore. The characters understand nothing and learn nothing. I suppose that tracks.
Scenes from a Marriage (2021), Grade B+
A 2021 remake of Ingmar Bergman's (reportedly bleak) domestic drama starring (real life Julliard classmates) Oscar Isaac and Jessica Chastain. This is so much the kind of work that Ginnie and I love. A close, subtle and human examination of relationships that gives us lots to discuss. We're only partway through this.
The Fantastic Four (2025), Grade A-
A lovely human and warm study of a family in crisis. The marriage and relationships here are maybe even more closely observed than in Scenes From a Marriage, but it's quite a bit shorter. Contains some action which may appeal to younger viewers. 🤣
Evicted; Poverty and Profit in the American City – Matthew Desmond, Grade A
We've recently had a brush with this subject, so I listened to this book. A bleak and really valuable look into housing security, race, gender and grinding poverty centered in Milwaukee in 2008. Ginnie and I will often call a self-inflicted wound, financial or otherwise, "stepping on a rake." For those in deep poverty, so often black women, the wounds are unavoidable and just keep coming. The world is littered with rakes. How can we pick them up?
Get the Picture – Bianca Bosker, Grade A-

I wanted to understand my Dad's art a little better and this is a great energetic tour of the New York Art Scene. We meet gallery owners, artists, collectors, conservators, and museum guards as Bianca tries to develop "the eye" that will allow her to see and judge modern art. Her point of view is passionate and frenetic and it left me wanting to see and look at more art.
Slavery and Social Death: A Comparative Study – Orlando Patterson, Grade TBD

Just getting started on this, but this is an important book in the field of sociology/history. I got interested in this from this post.
What is the most compelling anthropological book you’ve ever read?
by u/jamiemskates in AskAnthropology
Unfortunately as I reread that 👆 I see that I got the wrong book. No matter! This is important background material!
Slavery has existed in nearly all societies from pre-history through today. The common element of slavery is the use of symbols and power to disconnect personhood from a person. To make of a human an enemy within, an it, an other. I'm in the early stages, we'll see where this goes, then maybe I find the other "Social Death" that the commenter was referring to.